Lillian Kinder, a resident of Colonial Heights, left her Earthly life at the age of 96, on October 11, 2011 at the Colonial Heights Health Care Center. She was the widow of John Kinder Sr. Mrs. Kinder is survived by her son, John "Jack" Kinder Jr. and wife, Diann; two grandsons; Jeffrey and wife, Tricia and Bradley and wife, Olya; two great-grandchildren, Austin and Michaela in addition to numerous nieces and nephews. Burial will take place in Bermuda Memorial Park following a private family graveside service. The Colonial Heights Chapel of the E. Alvin Small Funeral Homes and Crematory, 2033 Boulevard are handling funeral arrangements. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made in her name to the Colonial Heights Fire and EMS, P.O.